Energy speaks. Sometimes too loud that is will create unwanted doors to open and close on us.
Have you ever been sitting near someone and you can just feel their energy. You feel hyper or maybe sad and mad. What if you could feel someones sexual energy? What if it was so strong it made you hot and bothered? Well let me tap into a story that happen to a client of mine.
I’m Christina your soul mentor and today we’re gonna chat a little bit about our energy and how it can affect not only ourselves but others.
I had a client who I’ve been seeing on a regular basis. On this day they started opening up about how others would gravitate to them but in a sexual manner. I wanted to touch on this because I feel that if we were taught at a young age about energy and how we can use it life wouldn’t feel so crazy at times.
My client, This individual is a married man. Has done very well for himself and has a thriving growing business. This man is a traveling person and yes, he’s a very attractive individual. With a bubbling personality one would see him and say this person is just attractive to the eyes and is great with communication.
What you wouldn’t know from far away is that this person‘s energy is really strong! I mean so strong it would make you want to undress right in front of him. Yes, I did feel the energy when we first started working together. However, I knew what I was working with and knew how to take control and not allow his energy to consume me.
This isn’t the case for my he comes across and they have done just that. Undressed and was just consumed by his sexual energy.
What I noticed is that once you start getting closer to this individual, you can start feeling yourself warming up. Becoming more flushed in the face and even feel your own sex energy rise.
Crazy right. Like Christina how can this happen? We will get more into the how in a moment.
For the naked energy individual you wouldn’t know that this person sacral chakra is working. I mean its over active. Meaning it’s not balanced and any woman that is in his vicinity can feel the sexual energy immensely coming off this person. For myself as an individual who has been working with energies for way more over a decade I have learned how to balance my own energies as well as notice when they are overactive and or underactive.
So with that being said I can see and feel When somebody energy is under or over active.
The first few sessions I did not bring this up because it wasn’t something that I needed to bring attention to. I allow things to flow as needed and us to work on what is on the forefront of the topic on each session.
However, the last session he brought up how he does not understand why women are so drawn to him, and then will throw themselves at him and, he is just open to physical activity.
So I started asking him questions if he knew about energies and then I started asking him if he was attracted to some of these women and or opening the door to have them come through.
He knew about energies, but he didn’t know That we held energy so big that it affects others. He also said that he wasn’t opening the doorway for others to be physical with however he wasn’t closing them once they opened the door and lastly, he wasn’t always attracted to these women he just went with the flow because it was there.
So as we’re going through our session, we’re doing some breath work and I’m having him bring his hands out from away from his body to try to feel his energy.

Feeling the tingling within the fingers in the hands he could feel it. I’d asked him to bring the energy in closer to his body. As he was doing so I Was explaining to him that when we have overactive chakras or an abundant amount of energy and some areas it can really affect those around us.
As I mention this, he told me a story about a woman who is married who he and her and her husband were all conversing about a project, he said that the woman kept stepping back from him and then looked at him and said I need to stay away from you. Before she had mentioned that she kept fanning herself and saying man it’s really hot in here.
At that time I looked at him and I said that’s because she has a understanding about energies and knew that this was coming from you and was moving herself away from that that’s why she didn’t want to get pulled into it, he then understood.
I told him that it would take some time to work on bringing his energy in. However, at this time this person has been living a life of full abundance in the physical activities and having ladies just throw themselves at him for so long that now his physical body and his ego is addicted to it.
It takes time to allow the eagle to go through a death while you are reaper yourself into a higher version of yourself, sexual amazing and can be so powerful. It is so powerful that we create life and we create a nuance of life around us because it is our passion it is our creative energy.
We will continue working on balancing and allowing self to let go. Learn how to feel and see when the energy has decided to slip to far out.

Guide to Balancing the Sacral Chakra and Managing Sexual Energy
Introduction The sacral chakra, also known as Svadhisthana, is the second chakra located below the navel. It governs creativity, emotions, and sexual energy. A balanced sacral chakra fosters healthy relationships and emotional well-being. This guide provides techniques to balance the sacral chakra and manage sexual energy effectively.
Understanding the Sacral Chakra –
Location: Lower abdomen, about two inches below the navel. –
Color: Orange. – Element: Water. – Attributes: Creativity, pleasure, emotions, sexuality. Symptoms of Imbalance –
Overactive Sacral Chakra: – Emotional instability. – Overindulgence in pleasures. – Co-dependency. – Sexual addiction or inappropriate sexual behavior. –
Underactive Sacral Chakra: – Lack of creativity. – Emotional numbness. – Low libido. – Difficulty forming relationships.
Balancing the Sacral Chakra
1. Meditation: – Visualization: Sit comfortably and visualize an orange ball of energy in your lower abdomen. Imagine it spinning and growing brighter with each breath. – Mantra: Chant “VAM,” the seed sound of the sacral chakra, to activate and balance its energy.
2. Yoga: – Hip-Opening Poses: Poses like Butterfly Pose (Baddha Konasana), Pigeon Pose (Eka Pada Rajakapotasana), and Goddess Pose (Utkata Konasana) help release tension in the hip area and stimulate the sacral chakra. – Fluid Movements: Engage in yoga sequences that incorporate flowing, wave-like movements to connect with the water element.
3. Diet: – Orange Foods: Incorporate foods like oranges, carrots, mangoes, and sweet potatoes into your diet to nourish the sacral chakra. – Hydration: Drink plenty of water and herbal teas to support the water element associated with this chakra.
4. Creative Expression: – Engage in activities that allow you to express your creativity, such as painting, dancing, writing, or playing music. – Allow yourself to explore new hobbies and artistic outlets.
5. Emotional Healing: – Journaling: Write about your emotions and experiences to process and release any pent-up feelings. – Therapy: Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor to work through deeper emotional issues.
6. Affirmations: – Repeat positive affirmations to reinforce balance and harmony, such as: – “I embrace my sexuality and my creative energy.” – “I am open to experiencing pleasure and joy.” – “I am in control of my emotions and my desires.”
Managing Sexual Energy
1. Awareness and Boundaries: – Self-Awareness: Be mindful of your sexual energy and how it affects your interactions. Recognize when your energy is high and learn to channel it appropriately. –
Set Boundaries: Clearly define your personal boundaries regarding sexual energy and interactions with others.
2. Energy Control Techniques: – Breathwork: Practice deep, mindful breathing to circulate and calm your sexual energy. Techniques like Pranayama can be particularly effective. – Rooting Exercises: Ground yourself by focusing on the root chakra (Muladhara) through grounding exercises like standing meditation or visualizing roots growing from your feet into the earth.
3. Mindful Interaction: – Be conscious of how you engage with others. Ensure your intentions are clear and respectful. – Avoid projecting your sexual energy onto others uninvited. Maintain professional and personal boundaries.
4. Celibacy or Sexual Discipline: – Consider periods of celibacy or sexual discipline to redirect your energy towards personal growth and creative endeavors. – Use this time to explore and deepen your understanding of your own energy.
5. Energetic Shielding: – Visualize a protective barrier around yourself, such as a bubble of light, to prevent your energy from flowing out and to keep external energies from affecting you. – Regularly cleanse your aura through techniques like smudging, salt baths, or energy healing practices. Conclusion Balancing the sacral chakra and managing sexual energy are essential for emotional well-being and healthy relationships. By incorporating these practices into your daily life, you can achieve a harmonious balance and maintain control over your sexual energy. This will help you foster more meaningful connections and lead a more fulfilling life.
Till Next time
Your Soul Mentor, Christina Shipman
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